Monday, October 25, 2010

Day 6- I think..hahaha.....BAM- SANGLE-DATE-Cleveland-30

Daily Recap:   training all day at work..........Books-a-Million.....home.....Yes boring I know....

BAM: I wish they had kiosk so that you could look up where certain books are. I went there looking for that book "He's just not that into you: and I couldn't find it anywhere....oh course the relationship section I was looking in was right next to the "love" section.....ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh......anyways.... I read a few quotes online from the book so I thought I would check it out....it had some funny stuff!!! lol

"Cut your losses and don't waste your time .  Why stay in some weird dating limbo when you can move on to what will surely be better territory? Don't want to hear it?  Fine.  Here's the answer you're looking for, "Hang in there, baby.  He's not the loser everybody's telling you he is.  If you wait and keep your mouth shut and call at exactly the right time and anticipate his moods and have no expectations about communication or your own sexual needs, you can have him!"  But please don't be surprised if he dumps you or continues to drag you through a completely unsatisfying relationship. " He's just not that into you.  (Behrhart and Tuccillo)

Here are two quotes from " It's called a break up, becaue it's broken" by Greg Behrendt and Amira Ruotola-Behrendt
"So many of us find ourselves saying "BUT HE WAS SO GREAT!" Yes, and the people who got on the Titanic thought they were going on vacation. Things changed and it's important to remember that they did."


"You weren't in the same realationship. That should answer ALL your questions. "

Quotes: I could read quotes all day. I love website where I can look at them by different subjects or even by randomizing them!! Thus my love for status shuffle on facebook. Soooo much fun...I could read those for hours!! haha

Well I was asked to blog about two things: Cleveland and my idea of a perfect date.......haha so random.

Since I'm on the subject of relationships I'll hit the date one first. My original response to blogging about my idea of a perfect date was:
     "A date? Isn't that the fruit-raisin thing?" lol
Yeah I'm not so hip with the dating scene......but since I must pull stuff out of my butt to fill up this blog space ....here I go.....haha.... Well to me the perfect date is not so much happens as who your with. To feel comfortable and interested in wasting time with someone else is the foundation For me, I'm such a well rounded person that I enjoy mostly anything.......of course I refuse to eat at a fast food restaurant!! ..Call my high maintenance if you must....but I just don't like fast food all that much!! haha... Honestly, make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich at the house instead!! haha. So probably, my idea of a perfect date would be good conversation, good food, lots of laughing, some kind of activity, and a nice walk/people watching....I think I'm easy to please for the most part.....and those aspects seem to be very generic...........But hey these are just ideas and we all know some ideas are just DUMB!!! hahaha.....I'll let you know once I have more experience in this area.......Oh yeah I guess I could add....that knowing it's a date is also part of that perfect date!! haha...and it wouldn't hurt to wear good smelling cologne! hahahahaha

Cleveland: memories oh memories........One of the things I miss about Cleveland are the friends.....I used to have friends over at my house all the time....there was never a dull or boring moment.......well ok...on ocassions there were....dang...quit calling me out!! ;)   I really just enjoyed being around such a variety of personalities and watching their interaction with each other....fulfilling my love for people watching......oh my gosh and the many games we would play.....the best ones were those we made up...and the more dangerous and dirty (as in the opposite of clean) the better...haha....such examples: circle of death, snipe, pillow fights.....so much fun......Smalls and I brought back the coolness of playing dominoes and therefore my house became the domimoe headquaters....we had marathon games....and of course what really made the games fun was me talking in my accents....haha....I think I spent most of my time in cleveland laughing!!! and being crazy of course!  I seem to have become a little bit conservative since moving back.....is that part of growing up??? I hope not.....I think it's just a phase I'm going through.....hahaha...I hope it passes soon...I don't like the calm quiet  collected shannon.....

How did I just delete a whole paragraph with the hit of one key!!! OMG!!!

So I will type it once again!!! ....so back to BAM.....I bought a new piano book.....it has scales and different chord techniques.... I need to up my piano skills ....it's been a while since I've learned new stuff.......

So, I'm thinking I need to start adding pictures to my blog....although the lazy part of me doesn't want to.....What would you like to see a picture of?? (PG rated please)

I like the idea of blog topic suggestions....Got any more subjects you'd like to know my opinion on?

Also, someone suggested I do a list of 30 things to do before I turn 30.......... AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH that hurt to type the three with the goose egg....so maybe I'll start compiling that list....or work on my bucket list!!!

So I think that's it for now...this DIVA has better things to do!!! :)

HOLLA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"I'm sangle as a dolla, and ain't lookiin' for no change!"

4 comments:

  1. haha... I was sooo hoping you would talk about "Nikki boot camp" haha or our many runs to hollywood video for marathon movie days/nights!!!!

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  2. Shan... you post almost had me at the book store for a moment... Now, I want to stop in Cleveland now and not just pass by on the freeway heading to GA!! LOL Dating OH MY!! I feel you on having wonderful conversation during the date!!! I Love it. I can't wait to read your List of things to do before 30!!! Inspire Me!!! LOL

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  3. Like. I miss the random visits to your house :( The things we do in college for nooo reason... Example being the time you tried to bleach my hair with face bleach.. then didn't we die it black the same night? Somethin' jacked up like that ;)

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  4. lol....your stupid soap opera lady's advice about the hair bleach....and I quote " Aleena I just don't think it's gonna work. Are you sure?" and your response. "Oh yeah...just do it! " ...haha....and yes we ended up highlighting it as well...didn't we rent a scary movie that night too! ?!?!

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